I was born 56 years ago in San Sebastián, where I lived until the age of 30. Since then, for work reasons, I have lived in a number of Spanish cities, and I have travelled in many countries. As a curious and restless traveller with an interest in the behaviour of human beings and their societies, I was able to analyse the lives of our LGTBI community in various environments. Quite apart from the hugely famous beauty of our city, about which so much has been written, here I wish to dwell on its lifestyle, idiosyncrasy and special atmosphere, which can captivate any tourist. And most especially the LGTBI community and other social minorities.
Today there are practically no LGTBI-specific night spots in the city. A few years ago the hospitality sector decided that the atmosphere of the entire city was safe and open to the LGTBI community. It is my personal opinion that there can be no excess of LGTBI spots, since they form part of our culture, music and social movement etc., but there is no doubt that a city with no need to provide spaces that are safe for the LGTBI community is a most obvious symptom of the city’s LGTBI-friendly character
Curiously, talking of icons … did you know that Saint Sebastian – one of the Church’s most venerated saints – is a genuine gay icon? His extensive representations in paintings and sculptures did not go unnoticed by the gay community. As far back as the late 19th century, gay men had perceived in the representation of Saint Sebastian a homoerotic ideal and the symbology of a tortured gay man “in the closet”. The image of Saint Sebastian has served as inspiration for the work of great literary masters such as Oscar Wilde or Yukio Mishima, and, of course, in films.
And films are precisely one of the particular attractions of the city of San Sebastián for our LGTBI community, as a well-known exponent of our enthusiasm for the seventh art. My professional career deprived me of a life in one of the most beautiful cities on earth, but every year I relentlessly book out a week in September to go back to San Sebastián and enjoy one of the world’s major film festivals to the full. The atmosphere in the city during the festival is incomparable. Art, culture, sophistication and style overcome locals and visitors alike. Because, despite its luxuriousness, the city has given the festival a popular facet to be enjoyed by one and all.
The beach and gastronomy are attractions for many locations, but the case of San Sebastián is far removed from those overcrowded cities and their beach bars. Our gastronomic quality and culture has been acclaimed all over the world. And the beach scene is as elegant as the rest of the city, with particular enthusiasm reserved for surfing and protection of the environment.
Whether you come to San Sebastián as a student or a tourist, or to attend a professional event, the reality is that everyone is welcome in their diversity with great respect, and also with curiosity. Yes, we Basques are usually discreet (this is occasionally mistaken for “standoffish”), but we are always more than willing to meet and greet visitors, keen to interact to discover new experiences and concerns. And, of course, in the case of LGTBI travellers too.
Historically San Sebastián has been oppressed for political reasons, and so our character still features a somewhat rebellious facet, opposing the tired old rules of epochs various, including the modern age. I love this. And if you are a member of the LGTBI community and you go to San Sebastián, you will be caught up in the enthusiasm of enjoyment of a city that has always been ahead of its time.
